You're Begging Your Partner to Marry You
It shouldn't be that hard to have your partner want to marry you. You should be on the same page. "I have known many couples who have gotten married and it was totally driven by one partner, while the other felt dragged along," he said. "This is a recipe for eventual disaster, because that partner's heart really isn't in it." If you are driving the entire commitment process while your partner just seems to be dragged along (or is even resistant to it), it's a bad sign for your future marriage.