You're Not Attracted to Them Anymore
While it's totally normal to lose some of that initial intense attraction over time, if you are going into a marriage but have lost most of that attraction, it's not a good idea to expect things to get better, David Bennett, a relationship counselor and owner of Double Trust Dating and Relationships, told POPSUGAR. "If anything, common experience is that attraction goes down over time, and not up. Many of my clients have entered into marriages without attraction, thinking it will get better, and the result is sexual frustration from the beginning," he said. If you're losing that physical desire, marriage probably isn't the best plan of action.