13 Reasons Why: What We Can Learn From the Way the Series Portrays Trauma
With the release of the fourth and final season of 13 Reasons Why, I've had some time to reflect on the series; its exploration of trauma resulting from sexual assault, domestic abuse, and bullying; and what the show gets right and wrong about the experience of surviving it. I'm a survivor of domestic abuse, and despite the maxim that time heals all wounds, I still carry some of the emotional and psychological scars of a relationship that ended more than five years ago. These scars are lessons learned and wisdom hard-earned.
I see some of these lessons and a bit of wisdom in 13 Reasons Why, particularly in Jessica Davis's and Tyler Down's stories of survival in the third season. Clay Jensen's struggles in season four, while highly dramatized, also provide some real-world insights. The series doesn't get everything right, though. It is, after all, a show produced with the goal of attracting viewers, so much of what I watched in the final seasons is sensationalized.
Some have gone so far as to say that 13 Reasons Why indulges in "trauma porn," with one unlikely trauma after the next affecting the teens at Liberty High, often in quick succession. I don't entirely disagree with this sentiment, but if you can look past the drama, the show still offers some teachable moments about how trauma affects survivors and the long, complicated road to recovery.